Yes, dating probably started long before people started buying new cars. When you buy a new car you test drive a "floor model" car and if you like it you really buy a different car of the same make and model. But when dating you take a "test drive" of some one's would be wife and then figure out if that some one is you or really some one else. In any case dont you understand the women has now become "used". Because for most part every women you will ever meet has been "used" or "tried out" before, it does not matter so much. Or does it ? Think about it. Will any one be interested in buying a new car if the dealer said it was pre-owned but has just 200 miles. It is still used and you want to get a great deal paying substantially less than what you would pay for the same new car. Inspite we want to apply this only to cars and not to the person you live with your entire life and who is most important in your life. You may buy five or may be ten new cars in your entire life time, but one wife and still every new car you buy has to be new. When it comes to divorce or seperation, I would think a high percentage of marriages will end up that way only due to non compatibility of the minds, no treating each other good, not agreeing on million things. Have you ever heard of a marriage breaking because the husband and wife are sexually in compatible ? Then why is the doubt, why do you need to try out having intercourse before marriage. Why cant you date and get to know the other person fully well and make up your mind to get married and then do your thing. For most people in today's world it is impossible or does not make sense because you never stopped to think about it. You just did what every one else did or doing. Please note just because your parents did or some great men and women did it does not become exactly correct. We know that we had slavery legal and women were not allowed to vote and our parents or grand parents and great leaders did not do anything about it. They were still great and did many things right.
